If memories from your past are causing you pain today, perhaps it’s time to make some changes. Some of your memories may be tied to relatives or friends who have long since passed. Other memories might be connected to people who are unreachable at this time. It could be some personal action you took or some words you would like to retrieve. Whatever the memory, it can be changed.

I was fortunate in the early 70’s to study with Jose Silva. His course in Mind Control was really a training in self hypnosis. One of the topics in that course was Memory Relief. The object was to take any unhappy memory into the deep levels of your consciousness and begin to tweek it, to adjust it. One little change at a time was “re-remembered” until the inflicted soreness dissolved. This technique was not intended to change anyone else, just to change your personal memory of the event. It hurt no one and freed you from that yoke of pain.

The point of all that adjusting was to reaffirm the fact that the event itself could do no further harm, only the irritating memory was causing the current problem. Let’s take an example. Perhaps the memory that bothers you today is like one of mine from many years ago when I was a little child. I misunderstood something my mother said when she drove us to the old neighborhood. She had some business to tend and she told me it was o.k. to visit my nearby friend.

I believed I had to wait for her to come back to the car before I could see that little friend who was so special to me. I didn’t understand. She expected I would visit while she was busy with her task. When she returned to find me still sitting there, she said it was too late. We had to go back home. My five year old heart was nearly broken.

This may seem to be a small, unimportant memory, but no memory that still causes an ache in your heart is unimportant. In this instance, a memory of that kind can cause an ongoing fear of loss in much more important present day scenarios. Childhood memories can be quite crippling.

Now, as an adult, I can take that memory into my creative consciousness and begin to see the action differently. One bit at a time it can be changed. First, I tell myself that I understand what mother wants. I promise to be quick, to not keep her waiting. Then I hurry down the street to my friend’s door and enter for a visit. The two of us share a giggle and I look at her new toys. I feel it is time to go. I hurry back to the car just as mother comes down the street.

This same technique can be applied gradually to much more serious memories with good results. My late husband was a skilled hypnotist. He worked with one client at a time to help change and heal the varied problems of their lives. I was lucky enough to observe the changes in a number of his patients. Those people he treated would many times drop the depression that had darkened their lives for years. It didn’t matter whether their memories of the past were real or had been simply over embellished and strengthened through the years, they still would yield to positive change. Through a bit of occasional reinforcement the resulting change would become permanent.

The importance of working with and changing unhappy memories cannot be over stated. I never suggest wiping out a memory. Memory “removal” is likely to become suppression and cause even greater harm. The gentle, effective way, is just one positive change at a time. Something that is “just a memory” needs to be addressed because it can cause physical disability as well as emotional and mental stress.

Taking responsibility for our memories, changing them for the better in this way, means not needing to blame anyone or anything for our own recreating of similar events in our lives now. We can stop the cycle and the repetition. It means filling our days and nights with the new joy and peace we can think and imagine today, not reliving the consequences of what we felt or suffered in the past. We can take full responsibility and enjoy a happier more fulfilling life.

Will you give me the chance to help you with your life challenges? Call today for an appointment for your clinical hypnosis. I am Reverend Lois Cheney, telephone (928)300-2030, RevLois@gmail.com

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“NOTHING COMES FROM NOTHING…”

Yes, it is a line from the musical “The Sound of Music”. In my mind I can still hear Julie Andrews’s beautiful voice in the movie version. “Nothing comes from nothing. Nothing ever could. So somewhere in my youth or childhood, I must have done something good.”

Doesn’t that sound like what we call our “karmic returns”? In other words it is the deeds you perform, the emotions you send forward, the thoughts you continual rehearse, and your habitual ways of relating to life events that create your life experiences by way of the immutable and universal law of karma.

If you are not thrilled with the situations in your life today, fortunately creating positive change is remarkably simple. As a hypnotist I have helped many people make sweeping changes with the use of hypnotherapy. To create wonderful life affirming results all you need to do is change what you are focusing upon. Bring gratitude, joy, love and light into your thinking and emotions. It is easy to see what isn’t working but much more important and profitable to look for what is possible and beautiful.

I hear you say “but what if this negativity is just from some past life of mine? I can’t change that.” The good news is it makes no difference how an unwanted situation arrived or what drew it into your experience. What does matter is that you begin today to think, feel, speak and act differently, in a much more positive vein. You may well be surprised how quickly you can create beautiful changes to benefit all your days.

Among the many other ways of improving your personal karmic returns is to take a deliberate 2 week news fast: no TV, no radio, no internet. The so called news being spewed forth by the various media is deliberately focused on what is wrong with our world not what is right. Just stop listening to what is wrong. It is much better to believe that within any soul’s action or any groups’ action, no matter how seemingly horrible, there is still the possibility of great light and love present within each individual. All people, regardless of their current actions, are still endowed with a fantastic spirit which can be awakened.

If enough of the earth’s population began using heartfelt gratitude in addition to adopting an unwavering belief in love and light and continually sent those energies forth we could reach the wonderful tipping point of 51%. In other words that percentage of positive energy being poured forth would change the whole world. It could mean the end to senseless acts of violence!

The good news is that reaching the tipping point could begin with you and me using our positive thoughts, actions and emotions. Are you with me? Let’s start today!

Rev. Lois Cheney

RevLois@gmail.com

 

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WHAT BETTER TIME?

Yes, what better time than right now as the New Year approaches to clean your mental, emotional and physical house?

Your mental “cupboard” filled with your past experiences and ideas may have been presenting you with the same old beliefs and decisions over and over. As a hypnotist I know habits are powerful but they can be changed! What if you were to decide to make your own thoughts and desires concerning possibilities for the year 2016 much different? What positive results might present themselves if you were to look at life differently?

Perhaps this year is the year to believe in your own dynamically unlimited possibilities. You could make this coming year the time to assert your own latent abilities and self-esteem! Go ahead with faith and bring forward those things you always wanted to do or even wanted to try but were reluctant to attempt because of imagined possible failure. Make January 1, 2016 a springboard for new experiences. Make all of 2016 your best year yet!

Do you need to change your emotional responses also? We can be so accustomed to responding to certain events in a preprogramed emotional way that we simply fail to notice there could be another response. In other words we might feel that this or that other event is working against us when in fact we can use any situation by drawing on its energy to move forward!

Our automatic emotional responses can be changed. Instead of “oh no” when a seemingly significant “roadblock” appears we might feel or say “isn’t that interesting” and just keep moving ahead. In fact harsh or obviously unwarranted criticism from anyone can be allowed to bounce off you or even be used energetically to propel you forward to your personal desires or destination. Your emotional responses to life events matter!

Why would I mention cleaning your physical house as well? Our homes when they house unused or unusable items can contribute to cluttered thinking and negative reactions as well. For instance is there something that you own that is owning you? Are you required to dust it, move it around, move around it or otherwise care for it when you really don’t want or need it? In other words anything whether it is clothing or appliances or furniture that is no longer of use, needs to be donated, sold or tossed.

It is particularly heavy and potentially depressing to be “warehousing” the clothing of someone who used to live with you and is long gone elsewhere. Your home needs to be your home! Make your possessions serve you, not the other way around. You might be pleasantly surprised at how airy and light your home’s energy will feel when you discard any unnecessary items.

Clearing and cleaning your past mental storage, your emotional responses and your physical home can result in a whole new and more positive you. All three aspects of sanitizing can bring you to see all of your experiences with new eyes. You really can become more of the person you were born to be. Just tackle one aspect at a time. Be ready to be pleasantly surprised at how your life experience will change!

 

Rev. Lois Cheney

RevLois@gmail.com

 

 

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HOW NEW WILL YOUR NEW YEAR BE?

As we birth the New Year 2016, our thoughts return to the year now past. Perhaps we feel many things could have been better. We see loss in various human arenas…finance, institutions, relationships, and more.

We need to ask ourselves if we want a rehash of 2015 or if we are willing to make the effort to create situations and events in and around us that are truly new. To have a “new” year we must begin to think, act and feel differently about ourselves, our experiences and our abilities.

At this special time of new beginnings I offer these ideas: First, forget the so called “failures” of the twelve months past. Those losses and the actions that created them are over. Instead whip out a sheet of paper and pen. Begin to write everything you did that was a “win”.

Call your list MY SUCCESSES. Documenting your “wins” as a list will be the first step toward your new creation, your new journey. Whatever you did at any time that brought you a good feeling about yourself, your motives and your abilities, write it on your list! The act of writing anything gives it special enlivening energy.

The reason for this exercise is not to encourage living in the past but to allow you to remember and feel those special positive energy and power filled times. What name do you give the power behind those winning memories? Do you think of it as the energy of intuition, Spirit, God, I Am, High Self, Light or Love? Whatever name you give to it that power is still with you to use in any way you can think, dream or imagine.

By making the “My Successes” list you will begin to remember many previously forgotten successful decisions and adventures. Take that energy of success, use it to model your ideal new year.

Did you know that your powerful subconscious will always carry out your orders? Every repetitious thought and emotion you feed to it will be saved, worked with and brought to manifestation. It is a 24-hour-a-day worker. It never becomes tired and it never grows old. Be sure to feed it with your highest thoughts and feelings.

When you access your own “feel good” emotion you have accessed your personally powerful fuel and igniter fluid for constructive manifestation. Throw out any limiting ideas. You know what you desire. Now you have the way to ignite those desires!

It is no secret that most of us can tell you what didn’t work in our lives or what isn’t working. Why fritter away our dynamic energy resources on such a wasteful pastime?

Start cleaning your mental and emotional “house”. When a particular personal habit is a stumbling block, it not only has to be removed but it has to be replaced! It is good to remember that anytime you create a vacuum by removing an idea or emotion, you need to replace it. Otherwise that “hole” will be filled with the “first available”. Most likely it won’t be what you would wish.

As you add to your winning list you will build your confidence in your ability to make changes. The exercise will also bring to the surface new inventive ideas. Start a second list of POSSIBILITIES.

Allow the new ideas to approach you as they are. Just because a particular idea seems beyond your abilities at the moment, write it down anyway. Remember that tomorrow everything can change. What seems impossible today may be right next week.

Do not throw away any of your inspired thoughts. Acknowledge each of them as they arrive. WHEN IN DOUBT…WRITE IT DOWN!

I would like to share with you an excerpt from an e-mail I received from The Intenders group some years ago:

“You are called, now, to give birth to a new way of life for yourself and for all those who walk this world with you. You stand poised at the threshold of great expansion in your perceptions, your possibilities, and your consciousness.

Now is not the time to settle for less or to think small! You are here to rise up and out of the prevailing paradigm of beliefs by shining your light, sharing your joy and your love.”

Happy 2016! May it be your best year yet!

 

Reverend Lois Cheney

RevLois@gmail.com

 

 

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KARMA: GOOD? BAD?

Karma gets such a bad rap! No karma is not only “bad”. In truth karma is not “good” either. In fact karma itself is quite neutral. Karma is simply the energetic return of all our thoughts, feelings, words and actions. Karma is revealed in our day to day life experience.

In other words whatever we send out with an emotional charge, there will always be a return. The look or feel of the created karmic response may be quite different. It can be difficult or even impossible to access the originating cause. Yes, the original source of the energy may not be obvious but depend on this: what was sent forth will return!

When life seems to crash down on us in unappreciated ways, we might blame everything from our family to the stars but the truth is we simply need to change the way we are responding to life’s experiences! Blessing what happens is a much better response. It is not really important the why and wherefore so much as our response to it.

I have a friend who when life gets messy simply says “Isn’t that interesting!” She unabashedly looks forward to what great thing this so called disaster will bring forth into her next new experience. She opens the door to allow delightful changes. By blessing the apparently unhappy and ugly instead of hard resisting, she invites beautiful outcomes. I have to say that her mind set and consistently different approach appears to always work in her favor.

You might ask “what if my awful karma is a result of a past life?” That is kind of the “it’s really not my fault” excuse. Whether it is this life or some other lifetime your way to better experiences right here and now is still the same. Using the approach of sending light, love and acceptance to whatever you encounter will make improvement in the next appearance. “This is bringing in something great. I can hardly wait to see what happens next!”

This way of viewing things may not come naturally to most of us but with a little practice it will get easier and easier. Eventually putting joyful anticipation first will become the normal way of making life an exciting adventure. “Oh, boy! I know this next happening is going to be something great!”

If you are ever tempted to judge the experiences of friends or even strangers, resist! Putting your energy into the problems of others is equivalent to binding those same or similar difficulties to yourself.

It is not healthy for you to reiterate to yourself or anyone else how awful and horrible anything or anyone was. Remember your subconscious is always listening and believes it is your desired and repeated experience! It is fine to send light and healing to anyone but be sure you are not sensing or amplifying their discomfort.

To enjoy life’s varied experiences, it is important to make the decision to smile at all of it. Expect joyful progress. After all we are here on earth for our souls’ advancement. The only way to move forward and learn is through experiencing.

 

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Who Was I?

Your personal past life experiences can have a profound effect on your life today. Those effects can manifest positively or negatively and can be physical, emotional or mental. They may indicate a profound talent or an unexplained pain and disability.

The good news is that if you want to make positive changes in your life experience today, a past life exploration with the help of hypnosis can do just that for you. As a certified clinical hypnotherapist I have been able to help many people to access their past experiences.

It does not matter how long ago any particular life experience has been. It might be centuries ago, just 100 years ago, whatever the length of time that has past, akashic records will open for you. Interestingly, your chakras and all the cells of your body also hold past memories. Your subconscious mind when it is allowed to come forward through hypnosis, will reach out to wherever those memories exist and bring them to your conscious awareness.

You can amplify talents that you developed long ago and use those talents today. Were you a successful author, a fantastic ballerina, the best archer? Do you want to use some of those techniques today?

In addition your subconscious or “high-self” can also promote healing of the trauma of physical injuries that were your past experience as well as help with healing fears and phobias stemming from past events.

Hypnosis can be applied with great success to many troublesome situations in your life today. The great thing is that you needn’t continue to fear or be in needless pain. Even better is working with hypnosis can access your ability to move forward on your life path with boundless energy and fresh unique approaches.

Call for your private appointment today!

Reverend Lois Cheney

(928)300-2030

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QUESTIONS/QUESTIONS

Clients of mine ask a lot of questions. I welcome all those inquiries. I want folks to get the answers they need. Some of kinds of questions I expect and others surprise me. Usually a psychic reading will involve a person’s very personal desires for confirmation on one or another course of action. Perhaps they want to relocate or change jobs, maybe even want to know whether they are making a good choice in selecting a personal or business partner. Occasionally they will ask about guides or guardian angels.

Today however I was asked another kind of question, quite different. The person wanted to know if it was possible for a deceased spirit, a family member existing on the other side, to be in two places at once. The answer is yes and no! Here on earth we are accustomed to time, space and location. In the heaven worlds it is very different. In that way on the other side of life it is possible for a spirit to be everywhere at once because our idea of “where” simply doesn’t exist as a concrete location.

To be in spirit is not to be in a particular time or space or location. It is just to be. When my mother passed to the other side I asked her how she felt. Her statement was she was “infinitesimally small and enormously large”. In other words she could be whatever form and in whatever location she decided! Does that remind you of the question “How many angels can dance on the head of a pin”?

I felt my client’s initial question stemmed from his concern that if either his mother or brother in spirit were being “interviewed” by more than one friend or family member at the same time, would that tire the spirit in question.

Theoretically every family member “alive” on the earth plane could be speaking simultaneously to their spirit brother or mother while the individual questioners were in Indiana, London or any other location at a distance. There would be no need to know what the other members of the family were doing. There would be no interference. And no, it would not exhaust the spirit although the information could vary according to the questions!

All of which brings me to another part of his questions. “Could I use a pendulum to talk to my relatives in spirit?” Yes he could do that if the questions could be answered with yes, no, maybe or don’t know. A pendulum definitely has its limitations. If he were able to get a more direct communication through thought and intuition, he would probably find it much more satisfying and detailed.

The third question was “How soon does a spirit reincarnate into earthly form?” The answer is two part. First not all souls do return to take a human body. Those souls that decide to return to earth or any other physical body incarnation do so with the help of guides and teachers. The time involved in the return can vary tremendously from one soul to another. One year or ten years means nothing in heaven. Remember that time as we know it does not exist on the other side.

Please know that when you and I are together in a session I welcome any and all of your questions whether we are working in my healing room or working by telephone. By your asking of questions I feel confident that you will receive the information you need. The answers always come from the highest and best source whether that source is your guides, your personal angels or even more profound entities. Your needs are important to me.

To schedule your phone or in-person appointment call 928-300-2030 or e-mail RevLois@gmail.com

 

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Through my many years of working as a psychic and healing channel I have always known how effective healing energies can be when transmitted at a distance. That distance of transmission can be thousands of miles away or just down the street. Energy knows no boundaries at all. Healings happen when there is sufficient motivation and acceptance on the part of the recipient.

I have sent healing successfully to people, dogs, cats and horses to name just a few recipients. Usually I am working with rather specific diseases or discomforts that are experienced. However in the last couple of years additionally I have started using my specialized chakra clearing techniques as healing but also as a preventative measure.

Chakra clearing can reduce significantly the probability of the onset of physical, mental and emotional stresses. When working with a client for chakra clearing and entrainment, I ask when I telephone that they be relaxed in their home preferably stretched out on a bed, couch or floor where they can hear my voice coming through the speaker system of their telephone. The reason for the speaker is that I want them to experience the sound of my tuning forks as well as the affirmations that I offer.

Through the ethers I send the appropriate colored energy to each of their chakras and adjust their speed of vibration. The result of balancing each chakra with color, sound and energetic vibration allows the chakras to work together on the central column as originally intended.

Another transition for my work has occurred because of the change in earth energies. Along with that basic earth change many people also are coming up into higher vibrations to match the more elevated incoming energy. Whereas I used to work with the usual well-known seven-chakra system, I found it necessary to begin working with twelve chakras.

The added result for clients of my working with all twelve of their chakras is that the very positive aspect of reaching high level intuition becomes much more possible and direct. People can make heretofore undreamed of advances with their extra sensory perception. Gaining more accurate pointed knowledge of an ultimately useful kind is a great advantage day to day.

I invite you to call to experience this special chakra clearing for yourself. It will surprise you with the strong advancement it provides you for your daily life and your life path.

Rev. Lois Cheney (928)300-2030

RevLois@gmail.com

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It is a strange term really—“disembodied spirits”. Strange, because all energy and all spirits have a body of some sort. Admittedly, many of those energy bodies are not as solid as we tend to think a body should be.

All of this came to mind yesterday when I had a grandmotherly sort of spirit wandering my home singing “My Sweet Lorraine”. That is part of a song from the 1920’s which my mother used to play on the piano when I was very young. I quickly realized the idea of the singing was an identifier for my benefit.

As it turned out, the owner of that energy body was in fact a grandmother who came through my home to “check me out”. The reason for the inspection was that I had scheduled a reading later in the day for her granddaughter! She just needed to know I would help, not harm. Apparently I passed the test. The reading went very well.

Wandering spirits are a pretty common occurrence at my house. Most of them don’t sing. Some will give me a light touch on the shoulder, perhaps just a whiff of perfume. Occasionally, my step father will let me know he is around by injecting a puff of pipe smoke into the air. One of my guides comes to me with the scent of roses.

Spirits make themselves known to me for a variety of reasons. Some appear simply to offer love and comfort. Many are there to carry a message, whether warning or suggestion, for one of my clients. Some come to support one of my personal goals. Others want to encourage and offer advice to my daughter regarding her activities.

Usually all spirit contacts are welcomed by me, since I seldom attract any energies that have less than honorable intentions. However, I do protect myself and my clients by being very definite in checking out the motives of any passing spirit! “O.K. spirits, good clean fun is one thing, but no hurtful nonsense or dirty tricks please.” I always work in a “protected” atmosphere for my benefit and for my clients.

All in all, I thoroughly enjoy living in an atmosphere where everything is known, but not always visible. There are large and small bits of ectoplasm fluff with and without definite shape, hot and cold breezes, plus assorted odors. Those continuing occurrences which might seem more than odd to many people, give an added adventure to me every day.

If you would like me to help you with answers to your life questions, I am here for your private appointment. Your questions and their answers are never shared. Your life challenges and direction are safe with me.

Call me Reverend Lois in Prescott Arizona. I work by appointment. I can read for you in my home or on the telephone. In either situation, you will receive a cassette recording of your personal reading. With that recording you will be able to review the reading in private. Many times so much information is given, that it is difficult to absorb all of it by just one hearing!

 

Call today for your appointment: Reverend Lois, (928)300-2030 or E-Mail: RevLois@gmail.com

 

 

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The multidimensional mind is an interesting place! Yes, we need our rationality but sometimes the intuitive sensing can be a lot more practical help in the long run.

I want to tell you a little true incident from my experience. Some years ago I purchased a wonderful book by another author: “Living in Balance”. It is one of those books that you read a chapter or so and then set it aside because it is so packed with great concepts and ideas.

My particular copy of the book was definitely used. I may have purchased it at the Goodwill or perhaps a used bookstore. I really don’t remember where I bought it. At any rate it was full of side notes and underlining in various colored ink and pencil. Those handwritten comments were put on the pages by a number of other readers.

One day as I was leafing through the book it occurred to me that it was not as physically “beautiful” as I thought it should be. I thought it wasn’t somehow presentable enough to be in my bookcase. I decided to order a nice new copy thinking it would “look better” on the shelf.

I did order a new copy which arrived a week or so later. The odd thing was I felt absolutely no desire to open or handle the new very clean book! I finally asked myself why. Turns out I had failed to realize all those people who had hand written margin notes and underlined passages in the old copy had become my friends!

I didn’t know those folks in the usual way but somehow I loved them. They had offered me different points of view. Each one of them had taken on the role of teacher for me and I missed them!

If only I had checked in with my gut intuition before I ordered another copy, I would have realized the appearance of the cover and pages were of no importance to me. No I did not throw away the new book but it will probably be in that same pristine condition in my bookcase forever!

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