As a psychic I am frequently asked is this new love or friend the “right” one for me. Usually followed by another question: will it last. Tricky questions only because we tend to attract to ourselves those people that we need to learn from and not so much the ones that are easy to be with and enjoy. We attract to us a man or woman who has something to teach us. That is not always a fun or pleasantly exciting experience.

If we are “shopping” for a soul mate it is wise to decide before taking the plunge what sort of person we need to be or what we need to heal in ourselves in order to attract the sort of person we desire. Are we clouding or limiting our opportunities by not addressing one of our own overriding (not so pleasant) personality traits.  In other words to make an example of the extreme: if we are into ourselves so much that we could be called excessively selfish, we need not expect to find an open and generous soulmate.

To have a happy “coupling” we many times need to spend time working on ourselves. If we are happy with ourselves and our interactions with others, chances are other folks will notice and be attracted. It comes back to being honest, kind and friendly.

Then there is the obvious stuff: If he likes to sky dive and you are afraid of heights! If she wants to live in Hawaii and you only like the desert. Best step away! Physical attraction is great but if that is all there is… Metaphorically none of us really like to fall head first in the mud.

Having said all of that about relationships, as a psychic, yes, I can tell you whether a particular relationship has the prospect of lasting for an appreciable length of time. I can go even further and delve into whether it will be satisfying for either or both of you. If you want to know  I can see if you have shared past lives as well.

For those of you who are still wandering, wondering or just plain looking, I suggest you try something brand new, an adventure! For instance have you tried an oil painting class? Could you learn competition swimming? In other words get into different environments, meet different people with differing ideas. Sometimes we seem to get stuck in our repetitive activities and never encounter a new idea or a new person. Get innovative. See what and who might be “out there”.

We all like feeling comfortable, at ease, but a little innovation caused discomfort can push us to see things in a different and maybe better light. There is always more than one way to solve or investigate anything in life. Have fun. Try something new. Enjoy the ride.

If you would like accurate answers to any of your life questions, I am ready to help. Call or e-mail now. I will work for you by telephone or at my home in my beautiful healing room in south Rogers Arkansas.

Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030 or


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It makes sense to me that each one of us would like to take the simpler more direct route to achieving our life goals. If we can achieve our soul’s purpose, our true reason for being and incarnating at this time, without following a lot of blind alleys, I believe a positive simple method would surely be our preference.

Yet it often feels that earth is a difficult school to master. In pursuing our desired accomplishments unfortunately it seems we need to stumble here and there and occasionally metaphorically fall flat on our faces. It definitely would be positive and satisfying for us if there were a way to go an easier more productive roadway while using our talents and accomplishing our intended results.

This need or desire for accomplishing our goals with ease and simplicity is where our dreams can be of great help. Our dreams can assist in so many ways. In dreams we can literally try out different approaches without spending needless time and effort on solutions that will not or cannot work. Instead of our usual exhaustive way of trying first this way and then that possibility, through our dreams we can find a way to hone in on the most effective pathway without much time or physical effort.

How can we encourage our dreams to work for us and with us in our efforts? To solicit the required help from your personal dream maker it is necessary to convince your dream creator that you are truly interested and grateful for its help. One of the simple ways of showing your gratitude is to keep a dream journal with as much detail as you can recall from each dream. If you journal in a regular fashion you will find that your dreams occur with greater regularity while becoming more detailed and offering much helpful advice. By journaling and making an effort to understand the messages contained in the dreams, you are really saying to your dream composer “thank you, your help is appreciated. I am ready to receive more of your insight”.

When you are faced with important decisions concerning a particular desire, it is good to write in great detail what you wish to accomplish. Having done that you can read the details aloud to your dream self as you prepare to sleep. You can put into your one way conversation with the dream maker as much detail as you wish concerning the desired solution. Another helpful way to pave the way for important answers also is to say aloud “Tonight I will dream, remember and record the correct solution to this problem situation.

From time to time I have had clients say to me that they do not wish to remember dreams because they have had one or more nightmares. I say congratulations because a nightmare is a dramatic way of pointing out what you are ignoring in the daytime hours, something that really requires your attention. A nightmare can be the very best thing because it opens your eyes to an important issue requiring your investigation and probably decisive action.

Occasionally I have had clients insist that they simply never dream.  Of course that is not true. What is true is that they are not remembering their dreams. We all dream multiple times through our night’s sleep.

How do you become more conscious of your dreams in order to remember as much detail as possible? That is fairly simple. First when you feel yourself starting to wake from sleep, do not move your body and do not open your eyes. Remain in the position you were lying in with your eyes closed.

Next without moving, search your mind to identify your last thought, sight or feeling. Perhaps you only saw color. Perhaps you felt heat or cold. You might remember a sound or fragrance. As you started to wake were you full of a particular emotion: joy, fear, anticipation? Did you interact with other people or animals in the dream scene?

No matter how miniscule your memory of the dream, write down as much as you can without worrying or analyzing those fragments to see whether they make sense or even if they are spelled right! Start with the last thing you remember, then what came before that in the dream and what came before that! This is not the time to start analyzing or working on the message, just remember as much as you can and then save it. Putting your memories on paper or on a recording device will allow other parts of the dream to come back to you throughout the day.

Do not judge yourself for not immediately being able to put together every dream in its entirety. With continual work using this process night after night you will find yourself remembering much more easily and with greater detail.

When you have saved ten or more dreams you may wish to begin looking for repetitive patterns in the dreams. Patterns can reveal and highlight parts of the meaningful messages. It is helpful to note if any of the dreams have similar emotions, settings or locations, the same people or other repeating aspects.

At this point you might start your dream symbol dictionary. For instance, my daughter felt that the sight of me breaking an egg on my third eye in a dream meant hatching a new idea! If you look carefully at any repetition in dreams you will have your own symbols coming to your attention. In days past for instance when I saw two white dogs and one black dog the dream was really focusing on the mindset of my two stepchildren and had nothing to do with dogs at all!

We all have symbols that mean something special to us as individuals. How do you feel about a dream that contains distant steeples, black cats, toilets (if you are not a plumber!), the second story of a dark home, a shovel. The list could go on and on. What is true is that your feeling or dream interpretation of any of these items would be different than mine. That is why your dream symbol dictionary could reveal a lot of meaning for you.

I wish you many nights and days of happy dreaming!


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As we move through our lives there are many experiences that can leave us feeling helpless or lost. We might lose a job we had counted on. Even if it wasn’t our perfect occupation, chances are the income was important to us. We might experience the death of a pet whom we loved and who loved us so much. Worse yet, the passing of a loved one may leave us wondering where our future has gone.

No matter the kind of loss it is inevitably followed by a period of grieving. Grieving is appropriate. It rightfully gives us time to regroup and recover. That grieving can last for days or weeks or months but at some point, we need to gather the pieces of our lives together and redirect our focus.

To stay over-long in grief, while also creating a state of regret or fear in our minds, can lead to mental or physical illness. Depending on the sort of loss, the time for recovery varies. Unfortunately in the severe case of losing a spouse or child grieving any time in excess of 12 months only seems to create further problems.

We have an obligation to ourselves to be completely present, whole and productive day to day. The life of each of us matters. We are here on this earth plane to experience and live fully. If you find yourself unable to move on, to make new plans, after your personal loss, I am here to help you.

As a psychic medium I can answer many of your questions concerning the loss you have experienced. As a certified clinical hypnotist and metaphysical minister  I am ready to help you move forward. It is time to recover your life’s purpose and direction. Call for your personal private appointment. Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030.


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The last time I lived in Arkansas was 7 or 8 years ago. I had a lovely home in Bella Vista Arkansas. Now I have an equally beautiful home in Rogers Arkansas. I am thrilled to be living in an area that feels like home to me.

Also it is important to me to be near the Ozark Research Institute in Fayetteville for which I am a member and presenter. No more long plane rides just to arrive at the center!

After working at my Rogers home on the “special healing room” I am completely ready to welcome new clients. I took some extra time with furnishing and decorating just to be sure that anyone who comes for a consultation would feel as much happy warming energy as I could create.

Every large geographic move seems to require a new web address as well. Soon and will be up and running. Special thanks go to my daughter who handles all the technical “stuff”.

Today I invite new and former clients to call or e-mail to schedule their personal private sessions conducted in person or by telephone. My cell phone remains the same: 928-300-2030 and I still have

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Yes, at last after all the home renovations I am able to open the bedroom closet and see my old familiar clothes “friends” with me here in Rogers Arkansas. Why is that important? It is mostly because Jake, Booboo and I moved our home base from the far west of Arizona to the heartland of northwest Arkansas.

Nothing seems to settle me down like having familiar things around me. In this case it was my shoes, dresses and sweaters. Opening the closet door and having my red jacket smiling back at me was pure delight. Of course after all the unpacking and reorganizing our little dog Booboo is especially happy to enjoy her usual bed, treats and toys.

When you consider it, most of us are operating on habitual expectations. We depend on the familiar. We have certain firmly held beliefs. We expect to know which cupboard, which drawer holds the knives and forks without a lot of searching. We hold a memory card for that specific location. Also depending on traffic lights as we travel, we know to stop the car without a lot of thought about what a red light means.

In general habit serves us very well indeed until we cease looking at some aspects of it. When we make decisions on life’s recurring issues by merely following what we always do in similar situations, we may cut off some more positive options.

The actions we take may be on seemingly small problems but unfortunately everything we do affects something or someone else. It pays to open up our thinking to allow that there is almost always more than one solution to any challenge.

I was teaching an intuitive development class for the college in Arizona when one of my students asked me to give her a method for forcing her coworker to agree with her own firmly held plan of action. She wanted to mentally force her coworker to see the “right” way. I suggested that just possibly there was more than one way of resolving the problem, more than one possible solution. I guess I was too forceful because my student didn’t return!

Habit many times serves us well. All I am suggesting is that sometimes we need to consider some of our more imbedded habits and automatic reactions. It is good to see if a certain familiar path has lost its usefulness. Occasionally we might catch ourselves using outdated solutions we used as children which no longer work in our adult world.

As a certified clinical hypnotist I am often asked to “reframe” ideas, those old knee jerk reactions and habits for a client. The subconscious mind will do anything for you given the right instructions. Hypnosis is a reliable way of imbedding those new instructions. With the deep meditative state accessed through hypnosis you always have the option of creating a new improved neural pathway for more positive results.

Call for more information on how I might help you achieve your goals. Rev. Lois Cheney 928-300-2030 or


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ROGERS, ARKANSAS! Yes, we are finally here in the Ozarks of Arkansas, Jake, Boo Boo and me. We are so happy with everything. Our new home will be ready for us in just a couple more weeks. In the meantime we are looking at all the clear lakes and beautiful rivers plus finding our way through so many stores. I have a long history with Arkansas and feel as if I have finally come home. Soon I will be visiting with the “Tuesday Night” healers group at the Ozark Research Center in Fayetteville. Yes, it has been years but I will make up for lost time. Looking forward to seeing all my friends again.

As always I am offering telephone or internet consultations for clients who are not able to come to the healing room of my Rogers home. I am frequently asked if psychic impressions are as good over the “wires”. Yes the intuitive and psychic work is equally accurate at a distance whether it is large or small. I welcome all such contact and can begin scheduling your private appointment in May.

Just call me at 928-300-2030 or e-mail

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Boo Boo is our little mixed breed dog. Yes, she is overweight at 14 pounds (our fault for over indulging her) but nevertheless a real love. I was talking to her this morning and petting her.

I wanted to tell her that in just a few short days the movers will come to load up many of our things for Arkansas. What we didn’t want to take of the furniture would go to charity. You see Boo Boo is very possessive of her things. It is her couch, her eating chair, her special pillow etc. I admit she is terribly spoiled. We treat her like our own little girl. Of course I wanted her to know that there would be a new couch for her to lounge on, even though things were changing, she would have everything she needed.

So while I am trying to explain all this to her, I suddenly realized that dogs have absolutely no concept of “future”. They live totally in the moment: “I have food, I have water or I don’t. Or I need to go out.” So how could I tell her that tomorrow she will have a big grass yard to bury her bones? How could I explain that the lower altitude in Rogers Arkansas would feel better on her hurt foot?

The very best I could do was to keep her close to me and warm. I would be careful not to let any of her special sleeping blankets or pillows get away. I would keep as much of the familiar things close at hand as I could and hope that would be enough. Her comfort is important to me and my partner Jacob.

With all of this I began to think how much better we people might be if we were able to enjoy each one of the “now” moments. If we could be aware of what wonderful things and people we have in our lives in this minute, wouldn’t we be happier? But no, instead of enjoying what we have, when we have it, we are always wandering off with our thoughts into future possibilities where life would be better.

You can be sure that I do as much future planning as anyone. To progress with relationships, work, or play, we need our visions. The immutable laws of attraction and positive energy projection are wonderfully powerful tools. At the same time, it seems more joyous overall to allow also moments through the day to remain conscious of each breath of the beautiful and flowing “now”.

It is for our own healthy living to remind ourselves that this moment in time is important. Every minute of every day is a gift and an opportunity. You are blessed with this earth experience. Live, love and feel with strength and intention.


Rev. Lois Cheney

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If a single match can drive out the darkness in a room, how much more powerful is the “Light” of one illumined person?

Can you by shining your Light release the darkness of negativity or conflict in any situation that presents itself? Could each of as hopeful enlightened souls decide to step away from harsh judgments and instead offer our blessings?

Many times we speak of the desire for peace in our lives and our world. Is it not up to us then to be at peace? Let the words we speak and the thoughts we think be filled with love and gratitude.

Think for a moment about our personal close relationships. Think about our family, intimate friends. Do we allow those people to have ideas that are different from ours? Do we let them express their thoughts without voicing our criticism? Let us remember that there is always more than one way to successfully approach life’s varied challenges.

In addition to be more accepting of our friends and family, let us step away, look away, from the harshness of the news media. Decide to take a lengthy vacation from the bad news of papers and televised disasters. Realize the exaggeration of unhealthy events simply is amplified to draw attention for the purpose of selling a product!

Instead of unhappy reading and viewing, bring your imagination to what is good and desirable. Create with intention. Tap your own latent power with the help of your powerful high self, guides and angels. We are all needed and able to create a better, happier, more positively productive world.


Reverend Lois Cheney





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If memories from your past are causing you pain today, perhaps it’s time to make some changes. Some of your memories may be tied to relatives or friends who have long since passed. Other memories might be connected to people who are unreachable at this time. It could be some personal action you took or some words you would like to retrieve. Whatever the memory, it can be changed.

I was fortunate in the early 70’s to study with Jose Silva. His course in Mind Control was really a training in self hypnosis. One of the topics in that course was Memory Relief. The object was to take any unhappy memory into the deep levels of your consciousness and begin to tweek it, to adjust it. One little change at a time was “re-remembered” until the inflicted soreness dissolved. This technique was not intended to change anyone else, just to change your personal memory of the event. It hurt no one and freed you from that yoke of pain.

The point of all that adjusting was to reaffirm the fact that the event itself could do no further harm, only the irritating memory was causing the current problem. Let’s take an example. Perhaps the memory that bothers you today is like one of mine from many years ago when I was a little child. I misunderstood something my mother said when she drove us to the old neighborhood. She had some business to tend and she told me it was o.k. to visit my nearby friend.

I believed I had to wait for her to come back to the car before I could see that little friend who was so special to me. I didn’t understand. She expected I would visit while she was busy with her task. When she returned to find me still sitting there, she said it was too late. We had to go back home. My five year old heart was nearly broken.

This may seem to be a small, unimportant memory, but no memory that still causes an ache in your heart is unimportant. In this instance, a memory of that kind can cause an ongoing fear of loss in much more important present day scenarios. Childhood memories can be quite crippling.

Now, as an adult, I can take that memory into my creative consciousness and begin to see the action differently. One bit at a time it can be changed. First, I tell myself that I understand what mother wants. I promise to be quick, to not keep her waiting. Then I hurry down the street to my friend’s door and enter for a visit. The two of us share a giggle and I look at her new toys. I feel it is time to go. I hurry back to the car just as mother comes down the street.

This same technique can be applied gradually to much more serious memories with good results. My late husband was a skilled hypnotist. He worked with one client at a time to help change and heal the varied problems of their lives. I was lucky enough to observe the changes in a number of his patients. Those people he treated would many times drop the depression that had darkened their lives for years. It didn’t matter whether their memories of the past were real or had been simply over embellished and strengthened through the years, they still would yield to positive change. Through a bit of occasional reinforcement the resulting change would become permanent.

The importance of working with and changing unhappy memories cannot be over stated. I never suggest wiping out a memory. Memory “removal” is likely to become suppression and cause even greater harm. The gentle, effective way, is just one positive change at a time. Something that is “just a memory” needs to be addressed because it can cause physical disability as well as emotional and mental stress.

Taking responsibility for our memories, changing them for the better in this way, means not needing to blame anyone or anything for our own recreating of similar events in our lives now. We can stop the cycle and the repetition. It means filling our days and nights with the new joy and peace we can think and imagine today, not reliving the consequences of what we felt or suffered in the past. We can take full responsibility and enjoy a happier more fulfilling life.

Will you give me the chance to help you with your life challenges? Call today for an appointment for your clinical hypnosis. I am Reverend Lois Cheney, telephone (928)300-2030,

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Yes, it is a line from the musical “The Sound of Music”. In my mind I can still hear Julie Andrews’s beautiful voice in the movie version. “Nothing comes from nothing. Nothing ever could. So somewhere in my youth or childhood, I must have done something good.”

Doesn’t that sound like what we call our “karmic returns”? In other words it is the deeds you perform, the emotions you send forward, the thoughts you continual rehearse, and your habitual ways of relating to life events that create your life experiences by way of the immutable and universal law of karma.

If you are not thrilled with the situations in your life today, fortunately creating positive change is remarkably simple. As a hypnotist I have helped many people make sweeping changes with the use of hypnotherapy. To create wonderful life affirming results all you need to do is change what you are focusing upon. Bring gratitude, joy, love and light into your thinking and emotions. It is easy to see what isn’t working but much more important and profitable to look for what is possible and beautiful.

I hear you say “but what if this negativity is just from some past life of mine? I can’t change that.” The good news is it makes no difference how an unwanted situation arrived or what drew it into your experience. What does matter is that you begin today to think, feel, speak and act differently, in a much more positive vein. You may well be surprised how quickly you can create beautiful changes to benefit all your days.

Among the many other ways of improving your personal karmic returns is to take a deliberate 2 week news fast: no TV, no radio, no internet. The so called news being spewed forth by the various media is deliberately focused on what is wrong with our world not what is right. Just stop listening to what is wrong. It is much better to believe that within any soul’s action or any groups’ action, no matter how seemingly horrible, there is still the possibility of great light and love present within each individual. All people, regardless of their current actions, are still endowed with a fantastic spirit which can be awakened.

If enough of the earth’s population began using heartfelt gratitude in addition to adopting an unwavering belief in love and light and continually sent those energies forth we could reach the wonderful tipping point of 51%. In other words that percentage of positive energy being poured forth would change the whole world. It could mean the end to senseless acts of violence!

The good news is that reaching the tipping point could begin with you and me using our positive thoughts, actions and emotions. Are you with me? Let’s start today!

Rev. Lois Cheney


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