Are you seeking a personal relationship which offers more than mere romance? Would you like the depth of love with that special person which includes a Spirit-Soul joining and journey? Do not give up the dream! You can have the healing that comes with such a relationship.

Years ago I found a powerful affirmation that directly addresses the desire for love in depth, a desire which many of us experience.  Then just a few days ago I again came across that same affirmation in one of my files. It still seemed so perfect that I felt I must share it with all of you who wish for a true partner connection.

The words “soul mates” are many times tossed about rather casually but if you are lucky enough to experience that deep relationship you will be sure to also sense that you have found your own heaven on earth.

I wish I could give appropriate credit for the words that follow. Unfortunately I no longer remember the source or the author. Read these paragraphs; test them with your emotions. You will know at once if the power filled words are meant for you.

“Today I send love to this world, and I call everyone my friend regardless of who they are or what they have done, for I see only the Spirit of God in every person, including myself.”

“I love the Completeness I AM, the Selfhood of God we all share as our eternal Reality. I look within to this magnificent Self, and I say, I love you with all my heart, with all my soul, with all my mind, with all my strength. And I love all my neighbors on Earth as I love my Self, for we are one.”

“I love unconditionally. I give my love freely, and that love returns to me in bountiful measure. I am worthy of love, of being loved, and I accept the love of others.”

“I think of all people I know by name, and I feel the harmlessness and harmony that exists between us.”

“I look at my family unit, and I see only the expression of love, goodwill, kindness, and respect among all members.”

“I am thankful for my friends, and I see our relationships deepening in love, joy, and mutual understanding.”

“And I know there is a special Someone with overflowing love to share, who right at this moment is being attracted to the love I have to give, two flames soon uniting as one bond of love and ecstasy.”

“Love is everything. Oh how I love Love.”

If you will place these words in your heart and feed them with your faith, I have no doubt that you will be blessed with your special God given partnership.

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It seems obvious that we cannot manifest peace on any level if in our desire to do so our words and thoughts seem to “celebrate” and emotionally relive past discords. If we use our energy to rehearse and amplify all of the old disharmonies including various true atrocities that are part of our human history, thereby refusing to release the past, what are we really expecting to gain?

When we hope to enjoy a much advanced level of living in our future, where love and peace prevail, we must carefully choose today what we affirm by our thoughts, our words and particularly our emotions.

Whether we are willing to acknowledge it or not, we are all part of the one energy of life. What you and I project through our actions inevitably affects the whole. If we are willing to send forth the Light of Spirit, the Love that we are made of, that activity becomes a powerful affirmation and force which lifts others while changing our personal experiences.

Adversely, looking for peace, cooperation and love while continuing to live in judgment, refusing to forgive, offers a predictably unpleasant result.

Let us agree to release the fears, worries and disasters of the past. All of the lessons of yesterday have brought us to the wisdom of new desires and new actions. Come along with me to see the worth in all life right here, right now. For it remains true that at the very core and heart of each of us is the Spark of the Holy and the Divine.

Reverend Lois Cheney

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As you may already know Tucson is a community which is very serious about not using many night or street lights simply because there is so much astronomical work happening here. Studying the heavens is highly valued throughout the area! Consequently when I left the circle that night around 9 pm, it was quite dark outside.

As I was driving home in one direction, coming toward me on the sidewalk in the opposite direction was a tall thin man carrying a small sack of groceries. He had long tangled hair and beard. His clothes and shoes were long since worn out. He was the sort of person some people might have dismissed out of hand and looked the other way. However, for whatever reason, I looked directly into his eyes. The surprise was that I was immediately drawn to the area of his heart. There was a bright golden light around his heart radiating not only throughout his body but creating a circle of light on the sidewalk. The whole vision only lasted a second or two.  I drove on home feeling very light-filled myself.

Many of us have been told over and over again that as Spirits being gifted with a human experience we are all “one”. For me the experience of seeing the spiritual glow or energy of this one man shining with such intensity drove home that point with startling clarity.  You and I, no matter our life paths, our personalities or intentions, are sharing and living because of the vitality of the Divine, the I Am that I Am, the one Holy Spirit or God’s Love and Light.

Knowing that truth of our being, why would we ever demean another? Why would we find one person good and another bad, acceptable or unacceptable? I send light and love to all of you. I see each and every one of you blessed by the Light that you are.
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Unfortunately it seems to me that we are all living in a world of cages. Holding tight to our lives we are trapped by our own ideas of right and wrong, up and down, in and out. I believe we have created individual steel-walled, reinforced mental cages. As esoteric, enlightened or spiritual as we may feel we are, for many of us it is still only occasionally that we take a chance to peek out and get a glimpse of, or a feel for, the world that others occupy.

Having taken the brief opportunity to weigh and judge the ideas and lives of others, we quickly dart back into the mental prison of our own making. Is it fear that makes us act this way? Perhaps we are fearful that our concepts are not as perfect as we perceive them. Are we fearful of the possible contamination of our minds by other points of view? Or could it possibly be that we are simply more comfortable with what we “know” than the unknown and un-experienced?

Consider this: we do know that our physical world is not at all as solid as it appears to be. Even our bodies are more air and space than anything else. Quantum physics tells us we are the ultimate in “spaciousness”. All those molecules and atoms we see as the real and solid “us” are in constant motion: grouping, regrouping, changing. So much movement happening continually that in theory any one of us could be displaying physical sickness in one nanosecond and through a focused intention on our part be well and healthy in the next instant. Change is that much a part of our reality. We and our world are malleable.

So if we acknowledge that our personal bodies are very much nonsolid and ultimately highly changeable, perhaps our ideas cannot be, should not be, solid as well. Maybe we should approach our thinking with the possibility of infinitely ranging, ever changing, and flexible thoughts rather than finite.

If we take a closer look at some of our lively nighttime dream adventures, it becomes obvious there is utterly no restriction of ideas or thoughts within that world of ours. Creativity reigns in those productions. Perhaps we might look at that level of fluidness as something to acquire or at least experiment with in daytime thought.

On a scientific level, the only way advances have occurred is through the efforts of those curious souls who were freely exploring and embracing the principle of “what if?” I believe the time has come that we must begin to see our world and our lives that way. I encourage you to bring “what if?” to your everyday method of thinking. It will not hamper your decision making. It will simply enlarge your possibilities.

For instance, what if there other ways to live, share and enjoy? What if I can accept and love others more while judging less? What if my ideas and beliefs could benefit from a good old fashioned expansion and new direction? What if I could help mother earth in a hundred different ways? What if I could see others from a higher point of view? What if I can acknowledge that Today is as Wonderful, Useful and Beautiful as Tomorrow?

Always remember when those new ideas come, write them down. Keep a journal. The simple act of writing your ideas in detail allows you to access growth-filled power and energy for the expansion of their innate concepts.

As you are reading this, know that I wish you, your family, your friends and your loved ones the dual blessings of great wisdom and all pervasive love.

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What makes the act of listening a rule of love or perhaps an example of love in action? It is simply this: when we take the time to thoughtfully listen to others, being completely aware of, and in the “now” moment, we are truly accessing our own ability to offer unconditional love and acceptance.

As most of us are aware the unconditional kind of love that Spirit asks of us comes only when we allow and accept others to be just as they are without judging. When we take the time to thoughtfully listen to the ideas, thoughts, desires and fears of others (without formulating our own response before they are finished) we are acknowledging that “you” are as important and valuable as “me”!

Being willing to give attention to others requires effort and more than a little discipline. No matter how spiritual we feel we are, there is that little voice, mostly ego, which says we and our ideas are somehow “right”. However there are rewards in making that extra effort to give an opportunity to others to be heard.

If you have ever worked in a business situation you are aware of the value of knowing the feelings of employees as well as employers. Information and new ideas allow improvement in the workplace. Certainly in everyday life gathering fresh ideas can lead to broader understanding and the possibility of real wisdom.

But there is one aspect of listening that is perhaps the most important of all. That listening can only happen in the depths of the silence of meditation where Spirit, your High Self and Soul dwell.

If you want to truly know and experience the expansion of your personal life path, enter into that sacred silence and listen with your mind and your heart. All the direction and help you will ever need are waiting for you there. Now is the time. It is never too late. YOU CAN LIVE YOUR PURPOSE!

When we are willing to become still and earnestly desire guidance there is yet one more tool that will help. That tool is gratitude. Express your gratitude for all that is in your life whether it is health or sickness, friends or enemies, every experience in the past or present because all of that has made you who you are today. Through it all you have been taught and you have learned!

I firmly believe that gratitude and love are inseparable. In the most deeply felt thankfulness we cannot help but love all of life. Gratitude brings us into the awareness of how holy and magnificent a gift this life is.

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We have all watched as global business fell, those pillars of our economy that we believed would stand forever. We have seen weather sweep in and demolish much that had seemed strong and permanent causing great loss of life. Even personal relationships we had forged with love were dissolved over something as small as a difference of opinion.

We wonder at the seeming chaos everywhere. What could be bringing all of this confusion into our lives? Where is this restlessness coming from?

Here is the truth as I see it. We have been far too complacent too long. We have felt that acting from our individual interests was good enough. We further assumed that if things did not work out according to our personal plan and intentions, there was always a structure in place, government or otherwise, that would take care of us.

Now is the time to wake up. It is the time to realize that we are intimately and irrevocably connected to every human on earth. We do not exist or act in a vacuum. Furthermore we arrived on this planet to serve. It does not matter what our talents are, a carpenter, a typist or a philosopher, it holds true that we are here to serve! The way we pursue our personal life path, everything we individually do, affects everyone else in a small or large way.

Why should we personally bother to make a change or a series of changes? To thrive and enjoy abundant life, or even to merely survive, we must move forward with new business models; new personal behavior models. It is time to look at our lives with an intensity we may never have used before. We need to measure every planned action of our own with the yardstick of unconditional love. Is this loving? How will it affect others? Is it kind? Is it needful? Otherwise we simply fall into the backwaters of indifference, affecting nothing in any positive way, just drifting through life, eating and sleeping wherever we find food and rest.

Yes, we know the earth is reinventing herself, trying to ascend. Are we going to be part of the solution or part of the problem? Can we analyze our lives and see where we need to change, where perhaps we need to “grow up” and take responsibility for those acts which add or subtract from the whole?

There is no other time which is more appropriate for committing to the practice of unconditional love than this time in which we are living. Separation between people or nations is not working. It never has. Wider rifts and more wars solve nothing.  Additionally, selfishly taking all of the resources of the earth in greater and greater amounts is not working and leaves our mother earth with no chance to recoup.

Let us look now and see how our lives are affecting the whole of life. What can we individually and mutually do to make the best changes, to create the most positive and gracious impact from the way we live our daily lives?

I have faith in all of you and in the future. Come along with me and find dynamic solutions to our current challenges. Together we can be the very best of change.

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When fear is left on its own, not dealt with, it grows larger and begins to spread. What originally was about one possible problem suddenly becomes numerous possible problems. The emotion of worry continually feeds itself and manifests in unexpected, unpleasant ways as our life experience.

If we acknowledge that emotion of any kind is a powerful creative fuel, it makes sense that we would want to feed our emotions with more positive thoughts and words.

Instead of continual worry expressed through our ideas, our spoken words or even worse in our written letters, we might begin making a difference in our emotional lives by being alert to the influence of worry and then erasing it when it occurs. So what should we do, what action should we take, when worry raises its ugly head?

There is nothing like physical exercise to bring in fresh energy and ideas. Go for a walk, head for the gym. It is difficult if not impossible to worry while you’re breathing hard from a workout. Another sure fire cure and a way to change your focus is to do something for somebody else. You can always find someone who needs a cheerful word or a helping hand.

Take time in the morning to write a comprehensive list of all the things and people you are thankful for. Don’t forget to include the fact that your earth life offers you an ongoing opportunity for soul growth. If worry still creeps in you also can escort it out of your way by sending peaceful, confidence filled thoughts to your own heart and mind.

When we make a firm decision to truly love and appreciate ourselves for our efforts (regardless of all our apparent foibles and occasional confusion) our self confidence will allow us to make our way through all kinds of intruding worries and challenges with personal esteem intact.

Thoughts, emotions, words, written ideas are all energy-carrying powerful creators. The test, before you send any energy into the world, is to consider what it is capable of manifesting in your world. Is the result what you want? Will you create more problems or more solutions with the ideas you are presenting?

It is tempting to tell friends, relatives, perhaps even strangers about your problems. The fact is no one really enjoys listening to your fears or difficulties. The result of amplifying your fearful challenges is not a pleasant nor happy anticipation for others.

On a personal note there are many mornings when I need to tell myself with enthusiasm that I am “young, strong and healthy. My body knows it and my body shows it!” Why would I feed myself those thoughts?  Simply because there are times when I would rather stay in bed and wallow! Occasionally I also might throw in something like “I have plenty of energy to share and to spare!”

Remember that your words, thoughts and feelings can be self-fulfilling prophecy! Be aware of your prophecies! May all your manifestations bring you overflowing Joy!

If you are currently enjoying a “sunny skies” quality of life with good personal relationships, plenty of money, a beautifully designed home in your dream location, I would have to surmise that your thought patterns, along with your words to yourself and others, lean heavily toward the most positive energy. I would go further and say you have drawn all these pleasurable circumstances to you.

Because you and I are virtual magnets attracting everything to ourselves in accordance with the energy we exude, we also are obviously capable of changing our experiences by changing our attitudes. Nothing attracts more quickly than a repeated statement or thought accompanied by the hot fuel of strong emotion!

Anytime there is an opportunity to praise a person or situation, do it! Anytime you can offer a positive suggestion with love or offer a helping hand, do it! Need I say that good deeds and good words draw a world of good to you?

But remember too to be very gentle with yourself. We all make what we see as mistakes from time to time, but do not be harsh in judging yourself. Make a correction with an interior smile. Know that next time you will do better. Forgiving yourself, not condemning yourself, loving yourself always, allows you to be forgiving and loving toward others.

Admittedly we all have unpleasant ideas from time to time that hopefully we banish as soon as we recognize them. However, it is the oft repeated thoughts mixed with heavy emotion that form themselves in our experiences.

Even worse are the hurtful thoughts that we write. Placing negative ideas on paper, amplifying them by writing them down, gives them increased energy, a longer “life” and multiplies the possibility of drawing more and more similar negativity into our lives.

What would you like to experience tomorrow and the days thereafter? What do you deeply desire in your heart of hearts? Write it out! Put your beautiful flowing ideas on paper. Read them. Reread them. Adjust them as you feel led to do. Give them the happy living energy that creates.

For myself I manifest most easily if I repeatedly hear my own intended good. In other words, I am impressed by my own spoken word. My method to accomplish this is to record my ideas in the present tense as if they were already fully formed and in my life today. Then I play that cassette on my tape recorder at least once a day to imbed the ideas in my subconscious mind.

In other words I might record something like “I am so pleased that my new business is not only up and running but the income from it doubles every month!”  Or if my concern was with a physical body situation I could say “How wonderful it is that I am more flexible and energized than when I was in high school! It is great that I have arrived at my perfect weight xxx lbs.”  If friendships are the challenge perhaps something like “Being surrounded by so many happy and supportive friends makes my life complete.”

Whatever area of your life you wish to improve just be sure to frame those words to yourself as if they were already a fact. Also only speak or write words that you are able to believe and accept. Going too “far out” with your intentions can defeat you by infusing your mind with doubts. I must also emphasize that I do all of this work in absolute privacy and secrecy. It is all too easy to allow your intentions to be destroyed if you carelessly share them with others thereby soliciting opposing opinions.

How wonderful that the subconscious is an obedient and trustworthy servant. It never asks whether the information you repeat to it is true. No, it simply reaches out to the universe to create your desire in the form you wish.

As you begin programming positive changes in your life and experiences, remember that it is not a matter of making no effort. As you fill your subconscious with the new pictures of your life you will begin to receive ideas of actions that you need to take to move things along. You might get a feeling of joining a particular club, making a change in your work place or eating different foods.  Be sure to act on the ideas that resonate with your intuition.

If ever you find yourself getting far too tense and wound up over something, look for a little humor in the situation. If you will adjust your focus, I believe you can find something to laugh about in anything. Although, so as not to offend, you might have to restrain a giggle till you are out of ear shot. As a tonic and healing elixir laughter will bring relaxation to your mind and body, and hopefully a better perspective on any challenge.

One last thought: watch where and on what you are placing your powerful emotions. Love, passion, wonder, excitement and pervasive curiosity are just some of the emotions that can be used for positive creating. But allowing yourself to be angry over events you cannot control is only inviting more negativity. Instead turn to a daily practice of seeking out the highest and best in everything and everyone.

Remember emotion properly applied is the catalyst, the real fuel that will help you to manifest surely and quickly the good you desire! I wish each one of you Happy Creating.

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It was many years ago that my late husband was called to use his remarkable healing ability with a young father who was dying of cancer. The whole family was present in the home. My husband took the gentleman to another room for privacy. About an hour later my husband and his patient emerged. The young man was free of pain for the first time in many weeks.

As my husband Jim and I prepared to leave, Jim walked up to an older man in the room and touched him on the chest and said “You need to stop smoking.” With that we went home.

Unfortunately the father with cancer was not receptive to any of the suggestions my husband had given him. He refused to make any changes. He would not accept any of the healing energy other than pain relief. Apparently in his depression he had already made the decision to leave the earth plane. In fact, adamantly resisting the love offered from his family and friends, he died only a few days later, well in advance of his doctor’s prediction.

Here though is the remarkably interesting part of the story. It was probably two years afterward that we encountered the older man to whom my husband had spoken and touched.  When he recognized us he said, “You probably don’t remember me but you touched me on the chest one night long ago. You said I needed to quit smoking.  At the time I was going through three packs of cigarettes a day. I stopped that night and have never smoked since. There were absolutely no symptoms of ‘with drawl’. I thank you from the bottom of my heart and my wife thanks you as well.”

It is my belief that the healing energy which the young father rejected was given directly to the older man through the conduit of my husband’s hand. Because the gentleman was receptive he received the healing. Energy lives. It is never wasted.

Let me recount another healing energy event. My husband and I dearly loved my mother. We knew that she was very ill and earnestly hoped she would accept a healing. Because we lived many miles away, we meditated and energized ourselves late one evening preparing to send her distant healing. We worked with sending our healing projections until we felt we had sent enough energy to help her. We decided it was time to sleep.

 In what seemed like only an instant after preparing for bed, all of the energy we sent to her rushed right back to us.  It was obvious that Mother had subconsciously decided that her time had arrived and very effectively blocked all our efforts. As a result we were so completely filled with the energy which we had intended for her use that there was no sleeping possible for either of us. We worked with other projects long into the night.

Energy does not die. Energy is never wasted. Even when you see no results, keep using your Love and Light for the best you can envision.  It may be picked up and used by a total stranger but I guarantee you someone somewhere will be thanking you for your gift.

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Positive resolutions are good. Writing them down is even better. Anytime we focus our thoughts sufficiently to reduce them to written words we have created a reminder of our intended direction but even more important we have added extra energy to the ideas.

A decision or idea left floating on the wings of mind and imagination has a more difficult time making a successful landing. There is the strong possibility it will dissipate and be lost. Grounding a purpose filled direction by writing it in as great a detail as possible will give it momentum. Writing adds life energy!

At this time of new beginnings there is another writing exercise that can add to the success of our goals. In fact it is so effective that I would suggest it might be the first writing that should be done. That priority is a written inventory of everything in our current experience for which we are thankful.

No item or situation is too small or insignificant for the gratitude list. If it adds to your life, it should be on the list! No matter how many time this past year may have seemed grim there were bright spots for each us. Today we will acknowledge those things and people who are currently adding to our lives. This exercise will show each of us how much we truly have of value!            

It is no secret that a daily practice of gratitude will bring to each of us even more things for which to be grateful. Thankfulness for the present can clear the way for more friends, a better home, satisfying employment and a multitude of other pleasures. The truth is that living in gratitude is so powerful a force that it can even sweep away depression and physical illness.

There is a deep joy that immerges from our hearts as we are truly thankful for all of our life experiences. That joy ushers out any negative judgments and instead allows us to fill with unconditional love for ourselves and others.

It is my feeling that as we write our “gratitudes” we are paving and polishing the roadway for our successful new year. May your new year be filled with happiness, new adventure and all the satisfying accomplishments you can envision.

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